The Ultimate Self-improvement Tool
Affinity, Reality and Communication (ARC)
The Ultimate Self-improvement Tool - Meir Ezra Blog
Affinity: how well you like or love a person.
Reality: how much agreement you have with a person; what you agree to be real.
Communication: your exchange of information and ideas.
Understanding: The combined result of affinity, reality and communication.
Part 8: ARC for Yourself
As you have read in the earlier seven articles on ARC, you can use ARC to improve your friendships, marriage, job skills, sales skills, negotiating skills and management skills. You build an incredible level of understanding with people by increasing your reality, your communication and your feelings of affinity.
How you treat yourself is the subject of this final article on ARC. Your success in life depends on how you feel about yourself. How high your ARC is for you!
"In order to have an understanding of yourself, you must have good ARC with yourself."
"It is not evil to like yourself or love yourself."
"A healthy state of being is to be a friend to yourself." -- L. Ron Hubbard
Do you like yourself? Do you think you're a pretty good person? Are you proud of being you?
Do you agree with you? Are you honest and real with yourself? Do you agree with how you do things?
Do you communicate with yourself? Do you spend time alone to sort out your current condition, needed improvements, goals and so on?
If not, your ARC for yourself is low and you will not succeed.